Starting Conversations

THIS IS THE BEST THING YOU CAN DO FOR YOUR BUSINESS!

A simple conversation starter is to go check out a friend’s Facebook (someone that you’re wanting to connect with- especially from your 100’s list) Like and comment on one or two things, and then take it to messenger and say something about what they posted.

#1

“Hey Jenny! Loved your post about your new car! Congrats! Just curious, what dealership did you use? We might be looking for one ourselves soon. ” This will be sent by private message to tighten your connection on Facebook.

#2

“Hey Mike! It’s been a while! Saw your post about ____.
How are things your way? “

REMEMBER:
Just say NO to Facebook scrolling
Utilize that 100s list
Be a KIND and NICE human
We aren't in the "Get them" business. We are in the "Get to know them" business
If you can comment on a post, you can message them
Nuture those relationships- it's not a 1 and done thing
Ghosters are watching, keep going with them
Birthdays, thank the likes, and messages when you add a friend are EXTRAS
Conversations are an on going process. Some will take months of going back and forth and truly building that trust and friendship
Have no agenda or timeline. Whether they want to get healthy now or 3 years from now, it doesn't matter. If you have built a solid relationship with them because you genuinely cared to get to know them, they will come back to you!
Find your baseline of what you CAN DO successfully each day no matter what your day is like. Then decide what you COULD DO when you have a little more wiggle room in your day. On your best day, pick what you WANT TO DO. Win they day everyday no matter what. Just show up!
Now.. let's get to work. Plant the seeds, lay the foundation, and continue watering it. Apply what you've learned and go create massive impact!

More examples below

NEW FRIEND

Sample message to send to someone when you send a friend request. Don't copy it exactly- make it your own. But keep it short and simple.

EXISTING FRIEND

Simple message to send to an existing friend that you don't know yet. Go to their FB page, like and comment on one or two things and then send them a private message like this.

BIRTHDAY MESSAGE

Simple private message to send to someone having a birthday. Notice that I continued the conversation a week later by commenting on one of her FB posts about her work.

SENDING RECIPE

An example of a message sent when offering a healthy recipe. Notice, it's ended in a question to keep the convo going!

BIRTHDAY MESSAGE

Sample of a birthday message to someone that you haven't introduced yourself to yet. Send it privately in messenger, not on their timeline to tighten your connection.

FRIEND REQUEST

Sample message to send to someone after sending a friend request. Going into messenger right then and introducing yourself, breaks the ice and you'll have many more accept your friend request this way.